This International Women’s Day, Indian women are forgetting the old fairy-tale promises and outdated gender roles. Tinder unveiled its’ ‘Her New Dating Rulebook’ that shared data reflecting how today’s single women are setting fresh standards, prioritising genuine connections, and shared values.
Tinder’s ‘Her New Dating Rulebook’
Tinder India revealed that 44% of young female Tinder users are excited about meeting new people. According to the data shared in their ‘Her New Dating Rulebook’, 38% of single women are seeking new experiences and 29% appreciate the reduced pressure of finding a ‘happily ever after’!
Today’s women prefer meeting at a quirky, independent café, bonding over an art exhibit, and simply enjoying their partner’s company without pressure. They would rather split the bill after the end of the date to showcase mutual respect and modern chivalry. Of course, safety is always a priority for females looking for dates online. Tinder shared that women rely on their features like verifying profiles, matching only with verified users, and sharing their plans with friends using the ‘Share My Date’ feature.
According to Dr Chandni Tugnait, Relationship Expert for Tinder India, “Modern dating is about rewriting the rulebook. It’s no longer just about old-fashioned gestures, but about genuine respect and real connections. Women today prioritise mutual care over outdated norms, embracing relationships that truly resonate. Let’s celebrate this new era where every connection is built on the freedom to choose what feels right and safe.”
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Top Rules For Single Women These Days
As per Tinder’s Her New Dating Rulebook, 51% of young female users say that keeping promises, such as following through on a planned call or meeting on time, defines modern chivalry. Around 31% of them expect basic respect for all genders and identities, such as using respectful language, as essential in dating, and only 23% consider an offer to pick up the tab on the first date a must. This shows how women today are choosing respect over outdated gender roles.
Again, safety is a standard for women today. More than half of young female Tinder users in India say that they would unmatch if they received inappropriate messages. Also, shirtless mirror selfies and not having enough clear profile pictures to identify a person are a no-go for more than a third of women in the country.
Lastly, connection and compatibility are the biggest dealbreakers for single women today. 35% of them prefer shared interests and lifestyles and additionally, 41% say they dislike bios full of clichés and favour originality, genuine self-expression, and authenticity over generic phrases while looking for dates online.
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