“I Feel More Patriotic Now,” Reddit Post Says Living Abroad Makes One More Indian; Netizens Disagree

A recent Reddit post in the Non-Resident Indians (NRI) community has sparked an interesting debate about cultural identity in the diaspora. One user’s experience of living in Paris for three years revealed an unexpected outcome. They felt “more Indian than ever” despite the physical distance from their homeland. The post sparked varied reactions, but most of them disagreed with what the post said. It is important to note, however, that such experiences are highly subjective.

Reddit Post By NRI On Living Abroad And Connection To Roots

Living Abroad Makes You More Indian — Any Other NRIs Feel This?
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The Paris-based expatriate shared how their appreciation for Indian culture deepened abroad. While living in India, cultural elements like food and music were simply ordinary parts of daily life. However, distance transformed these mundane aspects into precious connections to their heritage.

Food emerged as a particularly powerful cultural anchor. Despite sampling diverse cuisines in France, the expatriate found that “nothing hits like Indian food” with its complex spices and layered flavours. They frequently found themselves correcting misconceptions, emphasising that not all Indian dishes fall under the simplistic label of “curry”.

Music provided another surprising connection. The user, who is partly Punjabi, discovered a newfound enthusiasm for Punjabi music despite never listening to it while living in India. This musical rediscovery became both a nostalgic comfort and an exploration of previously overlooked cultural roots.

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This Is How Netizens Reacted To The Post

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The post generated divided responses. Several expatriates echoed similar experiences, noting heightened enthusiasm for celebrations like Diwali when living abroad. However, others reported contrasting reactions. Some expressed growing bitterness towards India.

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They questioned why their homeland couldn’t match the civic amenities, cleanliness and infrastructure they experienced in foreign countries. One particularly pointed comment observed that many talented Indians, especially from prestigious institutions like IIT, ultimately contribute their skills abroad rather than at home.

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This “brain drain” dynamic complicates national identity. For some, separation intensifies appreciation and connection to cultural heritage. For others, distance illuminates shortcomings and creates emotional detachment.

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This diversity of expatriate experiences demonstrates that cultural identity remains fluid and deeply personal, constantly reshaped by distance, comparison and reflection.

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